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You would have wondered on many occasions after seeing some individuals who make friends where ever they go, befriending people from doormen to hot chicks; from
bartender to billionaires, as to how they do it? What qualities do they have that you don’t have to make friends so quick. These individuals just do things differently
which makes them friendly. Here are some traits that you need to follow in order to bring in that change in you. Ready?
a. Firstly, make
sure you have made a good eye contact
Remember, eye contact is one such powerful trait to possess by an individual. Always make eye contact
whenever you are speaking to someone; the eye contact should be powerful and remain contacted until they let go. Being good with eyes, helps you be perceived as an individual who is confident and who is in complete control of the situation.
b. Confidence is the key
Boost your confidence today, if you are feeling low on it? It is like recharging your mind
and body.
Work on your self-assurance today - Head to the gym or get a hobby, wear some new clothes and get a great body. When you are in control of your body and you feel good about it, Confidence is automatic.
c. Humor helps in a big way Let
it flow in your blood.
Humor is one thing that ups everyone and if you are that humorous person around, it really
helps. Work on your skills, seriously this is one thing that helps you connect with girls.
d. Be a mavrick in starting a conversation
Never wait others to approach you and talk to you, be the first one. Topics can be on anything from clothes, sports or the weather.
e. Start with a small conversation. It will eventually grow
Small is the new sense. Hence start your convestation with a small one, I bet it would eventually grow into a huge one if you get
comfortable.
f. Be a
good listener atleast for that day
You would have heard this from many. You all know about this.
Being a good listener helps you to find the topic that they want to take the conversation on. All I am saying is Listening helps a ton. !! Listening
also helps a great deal in finding the common areas of interest and you will be able to aptly digress the conversation to topics you are comfortable in. Subsequently, you can invite her to places
where you both can manage and boost your common areas of interests - Galleries, Base ball games etc For example, if the other person is interested in arts and
paintings, invite her to an art gallery or museum.
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