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Body Language Of Females - 10 Ways To Tell If She Loves Me? She Loves Me Not?
People have their language - the body has its own. While you can adjust your words to belie the truth, the indicators emanating from the body seldom lie. Have you been wondering where the key to a woman's mind lies? Well, there's no better way to read her thoughts and anticipate her reactions than by studying the body language of women intently and closely.
Knowing these ten basic guidelines can help you get rid of the issue of whether a woman is actually interested in you or not. Armed with this knowledge, next time you will know for sure if your advances would be welcome or if it would be a waste of your time.
The Subtle Indicators
If a woman is interested in you, she will give out subtle clues for you to decipher. You just need the right tools to decipher these clues. The subtle indicators that show a woman's interest in a man is what the pick up artists call approach invitations. Approach invitations can be roughly described as actions or reactions that clearly convey a willingness to converse and spend time with a man.
A woman's reaction towards a man she is attracted to is not really very different from a man's reaction towards a woman he is drawn to. Both feel the very same sense of awkwardness and self-consciousness, except women know the best ways to disguise these feelings much better than men can. Some clear indications of approach invitations are:
Increased eye contact
Intimate gazing
Leaning towards you
Constantly touching the hair or clothes
Excessive and quick hand movements while talking
Body pointed towards you
Blushing and Dilated Pupils
When a woman is drawn to a man, her pupils automatically dilate at the sight of him. She is also equally vulnerable to blushing. This is a sure give away of a woman's feelings for you, and also the most evident body language of women to keep an eye out for if you would like to know how a woman feels about you.
Both blushing and the dilation of pupils are automatic, subconscious reactions which a woman has no control over. As much as she tries, she can not stop her cheeks from being flushed or her pupils from widening if she likes what she sees.
Head Toss
Women have a curious way of tossing their head backwards in an attempt to throw their hair over their shoulders. The sort of head toss that is typical of models in shampoo and other hair care product commercials.
Such a head toss is a woman's attempt to take her hair from her face and in turn, draw your attention. When attracted to a man, even women with notably short hair also tend to resort to this sort of head tossing. This is because the head toss is a subconscious reflex and conveys a woman's attraction towards a man.
Exposing the Wrist
When you are with a beautiful woman the last thing on your mind is where her wrists are pointed to. Well, it's about time you start focusing on that detail because a woman pointing her wrist towards you is a huge sign of being open to your advances.
Exposing her wrists towards you also exposes the palm of the hand which is a gesture of acceptance. The act of exposing her wrists and palms is like an unconscious way of asking you to take her hand and lead her to somewhere nice. So the next time she holds out her wrists so that you are faced with the soft, smooth skin on her wrists, consider it your signal to hold her hand.
Look at Those Legs
When a woman sits with her legs drawn apart, specifically when the two of you are facing each other, it is an obvious clue of her intentions. This body language indicator can be subconscious or intentional. However, in either case she may not part her legs in a vulgar, inviting fashion. Even a slight gap or uncrossing her legs to draw attention can be taken as her openness to take things further with you.
Similarly, if her legs are crossed in a manner that they make an inverted L shape, with the point of her knee pointed towards you, it suggests her willingness to accept your advances.
Crossing the legs in such a way that the thighs are exposed, albeit just a little, or toying around with the shoes or hem of the dress is also aimed to draw your attention and reveal her attraction towards you.
The Hips Do not Lie
A woman's hips are rounded in a way that they emphasize the shape of her body. This rounded shape is nature's way of making a woman's pelvic area more attractive to men. And when a woman walks, her rounded hips naturally have a side to side rolling action.
So if you see a woman walking with a heightened, exaggerated hip roll she is most definitely using this gift of nature to lure your focus and interest.
Shooting a Look
If a woman shoots a sideways look in your direction, not long enough for it to be a stare but just enough to get your attention, she is sending an obvious approach invitation. She could do this numerous times to see if you "got it" and to see if you'll approach and talk to her.
If you see her shoot a sideways look at you numerous times, especially over her shoulder, it is a sure indicator that she wants for you to approach and talk to her.
The Lips Say It All
A woman's lips, similar to her eyes, can betray her emotions easily and also without mouthing a word. Wet, sparkling lips held slightly drawn apart is a gesture loaded with sensual overtones. If a woman has her lips just a bit apart, she is giving off signals that she is open to approach. Specifically if you catch her licking her lips while talking to you, it is a sure indicator that she is feeling attracted towards you.
Where Are the Hands Leading You?
Hand gestures say volumes about a woman's emotions and mindset. If a woman is making random and rapid hand gestures while talking to you, it reveals a flustered mindset. Flustered because of all the uncontrollable urges and feelings of attraction she is experiencing at the moment. On the contrary, if a woman doesn't like you, she will be cool and collected.
Similarly, toying with her hair or articles such as a champagne glass or cigarettes is also a measure of a woman's readiness to accept your advances.
The Power of Touch
If a woman leans in towards you during a conversation or looks for reasons to make bodily contact with you, by way of holding your hand, striking a high-five, or nudging you with an elbow, she could possibly not be more obvious about her interest in you.
Watch for her to get closer to you, invade your space, and to make physical contact. If a woman breaks the physical touch barrier first and through her own volition, she is virtually seducing you!
The Golden Rule to deciphering Body Language of Women.
Even if a woman plays coy, her body offers a lot of signs that can help you figure out whether you hold her interest or not. You just have to be observant and pick up on the clues along the way. Bear in mind, every woman and scenario is different so even having a checklist may not be adequate or it won't apply to some women.
Just bear in mind the Golden Rule of approaching and picking up women: Pay Attention! If you focus on the little, subtle nuances of her body language, eye contact, tonality, and what she is actually saying, you won't need this checklist. You will intuitively pick up on whether she loves you or loves you not!
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